Blessed are the PeaceMAKERS

Sunday, I had the privilege of preaching to our church from Matthew 5 on the idea of being a PeaceMAKER. It’s a thought that’s so counter-cultural to our world today that it hurts to think about it. We are so in tune with an earthly/American system of justice that we don’t understand the grace shown to us in Christ. The really startling thing is that we are called to show that very same kind of grace, but we struggle to grasp it. 

In Matthew 5, Jesus tells us to love our enemies, to give more than is forced of us when we are sued, to walk an extra mile when we are forced to walk one, and to let someone slap us on the other cheek when they slap us on one. It’s frankly crazy, at least to our earthly sensibilities. 

But that’s the gospel. That’s why it’s good news. The fact that Jesus would love us when we were enemies. That He would give to the point of giving His life. It’s peaceMAKING on His part and good news for us. 

And now we are called to be peaceMAKERS, surprising people with our grace, generosity, kindness, listening, caring, and praying. Each of these defuses chaos. It gives a little picture of the Kingdom of God in the midst of a bunch of kingdoms for us. We make peace, bridge the gap, go the extra mile, so people can know the Prince of Peace. 

It’s hard. I get it. But here’s where Jesus tells us to start. Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you. If you can’t start by loving your enemy, start by praying for them. I believe that when we pray for the person in our live that God loves but we can’t tolerate, God does a miraculous work on our heart. On Sunday, I challenged our church to pray daily for that person that the Spirit put on their heart. I pray that this serves as a reminder to each of us to continue that small action that God can use in a big way. 

Remember, Jesus is calling you to think outside of the (earthly) box in a Kingdom way. See the world and the people in it through Kingdom eyes. Surprise them with your ability to suffer and be persecuted. It doesn’t mean that you stay in an abusive relationship (which is an important clarification to all this), but that you takes moments to surprise the people in your life that stand against you with what the gospel is all about. Don’t keep the peace by ignoring the situation, make peace by acting like Jesus. Maybe, just maybe, they’ll see Christ in you, the hope of glory.
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Killing Idols - What's Our Next Step?

Over the last couple of weeks, God has been working in my heart in a couple of major ways:
1. To show me that He is better than anything this world has to offer.
2. To show me that I still worship those things over Him at times.

It’s a hard truth to digest, especially when you have the task to preach on the life of Solomon and the Lord leads you to a passage explaining the downfall of Solomon due to the idols in His life. This past Sunday, I had the opportunity to preach from 1 Kings 11 on this (you can find the link HERE). It’s a convicting moment to teach on our tendency to worship other things over God when I realize that it’s still something my sinful heart can lean towards.

C.S. Lewis put it this way -
“It would seem that Our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak. We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased.”

Sunday morning, we talked about how Worship of God requires us to see our idols, confess our idols, and kill our idols. While the Spirit of God worked to show us those idols, and gives us the grace to confess those idols to God, this post serves to show us how we can begin to kill those idols and replace them with correct worship of God.

I’m a firm believer that our actions as God’s people should begin from God’s word, so let’s see how Paul puts it in Colossians 3: 1 – 5 –
If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. When Christ who is your life appears, then you also will appear with him in glory. Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.

1. Put them to Death – Paul clearly calls out the fact that these earthly desires that reside within our hearts are idolatry. Our job then is to put them to death. But here’s the interesting thing about this: they’ve already been put to death. Jesus died for our sin, once for all. That sin was killed with Him on the cross.  Yet, we live as if those things are not yet dead. We give them power over us when the power of God has already defeated them. Remember, it is God who does the work to save us from our sin, not us. We just need to let Him do that work, and live as if that work has been done. So pray today, giving your idols over to God, recognizing them as dead and ultimately powerless over your heart. They can’t win in the life of a believer, but we are still allowing them to fight over our heart for some reason.

2. Seek Things that Are Above – Paul also reminds us to ‘seek the things that are above’ and ‘set your minds on things that are above’. This is where our desire for the glory of God must grow in our heart. If we’ve let God kill a specific idol in our lives, then our next step is to allow God to take the place of that idol in our heart. We’ve made room in our heart, and now we must let our desire for the Lord grow in that place. If He’s killed the approval of men idol, let’s be reminded, by the gospel, of God’s approval of us through Jesus. The heart can’t bear an empty place. It was born to desire. It will be filled with desire for something, and we want to fight to ensure that desire is for God. The apostle Paul deals with this idea of ‘replacing’ often. Ultimately, it’s the ongoing work of sanctification in our lives, letting God kill the sin in our hearts and replace it with love for and obedience to Him. For more on this, read the rest of Colossians 3, or check out Romans 6 and Romans 8.

3. Keep Watching – Here’s the hard truth of this: the more we dig deep into our hearts, the dirtier things seem. Truthfully, as we grow more to desire God, our hearts are growing to please Him. But it doesn’t always seem that way to us. As we desire God more, our desire for the things of this world will lessen and those parts of our heart will seem even dirtier. In light of this, it’s often difficult to persevere. We must, however, continue to allow the Spirit to do this work of sanctification in our hearts.

James 1:4 – And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.

If we don’t keep an eye on our hearts, it’s often easy to let these idols slip back in without notice, causing our desire for God to lessen. We must be steadfast in the work of seeing our idols, confessing our idols, and killing the idols.

I’m reminded in all this that the gospel of Jesus is good news. It’s good news for our hearts, which are prone to wander after lesser things. The gospel doesn’t exist to condemn our hearts, but to make our hearts new, desiring newer and higher things. May our lives be vivid testimonies  of the good news on our own hearts.
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No Other Gods

This past Sunday, Pastor Charlie taught regarding the 10 Commandments, but we wanted to take a little time to dig deeper into the first four by writing a few blog posts this week. These four commandments are most primary, as they are focused towards God, and are summed up by Jesus as the greatest commandment - “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” (Matthew 22:37)

COMMANDMENT #1 - You shall have no other gods before me.

Exodus 20: 1 - 3
And God spoke all these words, saying, "I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery. You shall have no other gods before me.”

God reminds His people of His faithfulness, to remind them why they should obey Him. Then He begins His commandments. So what exactly does it mean to have other ‘gods’ before God? I think there are a couple of ways we do this primarily:

WE MAKE ‘GODS’ OUT OF EVERYTHING
When you look back to history and the many cultures that have made it up, you see this happening explicitly. The field was of primary value for food and economics, so ancient religions personified those things in a ‘god’ named Baal that they worshipped. We even see Solomon get caught up in building shrines to fish and fertility gods. It’s easy to point fingers there, but truthfully, we still have ‘gods’. We just don’t name them anymore.

Anything in your life can become a ‘god’ if you don’t keep it in its proper place. Comfort? Yes. Approval of people? Yes. Your cellphone? Most definitely. Even your family? Absolutely.

Anything that you raise to the position in your heart that only God deserves becomes a ‘god’. Is He your foundation? Does your life rest on Him, or do you rely more on easily broken technology?

WE HAVE A DIVIDED HEART
We get pretty good at portioning out our hearts, leaving room for God, but only on Sundays or during Missional Communities. The rest of our days and energies are focused elsewhere. But our heart is not a tithe, giving only ten percent of ourselves to the glory of God. God desires to be EVERYTHING to us, and asks EVERYTHING of us.

Jesus has a conversation with a man in Matthew 19 who asks Him what he has to do in order to have eternal life. Jesus tells him to keep the commandments. The man responds and says that he has kept all of them. So Jesus then asks him to sell all he has and give it to the poor. This man’s possessions were taking up a large part of his heart, and he walked away from Jesus sorrowfully.

It’s not that God doesn’t care about our family or our job. He certainly does. He just wants us to be a good husband/wife or mother/father out of love and obedience for Him, not just out of love for our spouse and kids. In fact, we are a better spouse and parent when we put God above our spouse and kids, because God has a greater love for both of them than we could ever imagine.

Tim Keller puts it this way: “the primary way to define sin is not just the doing of bad things, but the making of good things into ultimate things.”

What is a good thing that you’ve made an ultimate thing? Take some time to confess that to God, giving Him that right position in your heart and life.

Here’s a link to a post on The Gospel Coalition blog that provides some great insight into getting a little deeper with this - https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/not-number-one-only-one
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The Huddle Challenge

 "Among believers, there's no greater way to deepen one another's faith than through reading the Scriptures together". - Wayne Cordeiro

At Church at Cane Bay, we have three primary systems that make up our church: Sunday Morning Gathering, Missional Communities, and Huddles. Sunday mornings are the time for our entire church to gather together for worship, community, and being sent out by the gospel. Missional Communities are the lifeblood of our church, where 12 to 15 adults gather together around a specific mission in our community and work to see the gospel clearly displayed there. Huddles are smaller groups of two to three that meet weekly and are focused on study of scripture, accountability, and prayer. 

We've done a good job of getting people engaged in Missional Communities, and we desire to see the same passion and excitement about Huddles. We would love to see 100% of our church involved in these discipling relationships. The reason is simple: Without Huddles, what we do as a church doesn't really work. Huddles are vital to the life and ministry of our church. It provides discipleship, mentoring, accountability, and study of Scripture at a deeper level than any other system of our church. In fact, it provides the foundation of discipleship necessary for people to be sent out. 

Without huddles, people will experience burn out. It's better to give than to receive, but you still must receive in order to give. It's simple: you must be growing in your own relationship with Jesus if you are ever going to help others grow in their relationship with Jesus. We all need people to speak into our lives and encourage us, and a huddle is the best place to see that happen.

So this Sunday, we will be unveiling a new challenge to our church called The Huddle Challenge. The challenge is simply this -
1. If you are not in a huddle, join one.
2. If you are in a huddle currently, invite and have someone new join your huddle. This will help move your huddle to multiplication.

With this being a challenge, we also want to help you meet the goals of the challenge. We know it can be difficult to find someone that you can actually meet with week to week. So over the course of the next four weeks, we will be doing several things to help you get engaged with The Huddle Challenge:

1. HUDDLE EVENTS - These events exist to provide more information about huddles. There will be food, fellowship, testimonies about huddles, a time of SOAP, and some Q&A. They are on two different dates, one for men and one for women, so that spouses can keep children. We have a free gift for all who attend!
A. Men's Huddle Breakfast - Saturday, October 31 - 8:30 - 10am - Ryan's in Summerville - Attendee responsible for cost of food. CLICK HERE to register.
B. Women's Huddle Breakfast - Saturday, November 7 - 10 to 11:30am - Wassamassaw Baptist Church - Brunch is Free. CLICK HERE to register. 

2. HUDDLE LEADER TRAINING - If you are already leading a huddle, or think you might be interested in leading one, this is an opportunity to come and get more information about what it means to lead a huddle. We will work to answer any questions you have about leading a huddle. It will be Sunday, November 8, at 9am in the library at the school. CLICK HERE to register. 

3. HUDDLE EBOOK - I recently put together a brand new ebook that answers pretty much any question that you might have about Huddles. It's a great resource to help you as you start the journey of a new huddle, or just want to work to make your huddle even better. You can find that to download HERE.

4. SOCIAL MEDIA BUZZ - We want to know if you've joined a huddle for the first time! Using the hashtag #huddlechallenge, people will post to the Church at Cane Bay Facebook page when they get plugged into a huddle. We will do drawings for giveaways to people who join huddles for the first time.

5. HUDDLE JOURNALS - We have brand new huddle journals available this Sunday at the resource table for only $2!



You've been challenged! 
Over the next four weeks, we are excited to see people plug into huddles for the very first time and begin to experience deeper, discipling relationships. We hope and pray that you will take this opportunity to dive deeper, in relationships and God's word.
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Six Reasons You Should Join a Missional Community

We say often that Church at Cane Bay is a church of Missional Communities. That the gospel of Jesus is the heart of our church, but Missional Communities are the lifeblood of the church.  They are the means where our church intersects our community with the gospel.

Many of you are new to us, so let me define what a Missional Community is - in short, it’s a community on mission. Pretty simple right? A longer definition is  - a community of people organized to see that every man, woman, and child within their specific mission has multiple opportunities to see, hear, and respond to the gospel of Jesus.

Ultimately, this is a group that has a defined mission in our community. Every week they get together on a given night of the week. They share dinner together each week, building a strong sense of community, then move into a period of time where they pray for and plan for their mission, making sure that the gospel is seen and heard in their lives. Then there is a period of bible study time, where they study the passage of Scripture that will be taught on the following Sunday morning, allowing people to hear from God for themselves before they apply God’s word on Sunday.

So, here are SIX reasons you should join a Missional Community -

1.  God Desires for You to Be on Mission

Ephesians 3: 7 - 13 (ESV) -  Of this gospel I was made a minister according to the gift of God’s grace, which was given me by the working of his power. To me, though I am the very least of all the saints, this grace was given, to preach to the Gentiles the unsearchable riches of Christ, and to bring to light for everyone what is the plan of the mystery hidden for ages in God who created all things, so that through the church the manifold wisdom of God might now be made known to the rulers and authorities in the heavenly places. This was according to the eternal purpose that he has realized in Christ Jesus our Lord, in whom we have boldness and access with confidence through our faith in him. So I ask you not to lose heart over what I am suffering for you, which is your glory.

It's a GRACE to us to PREACH the UNSEARCHABLE riches of CHRIST.

God doesn't just desire for you to be on mission. It's a gift to you to be on mission, telling people of the goodness of Jesus that is so great that we can never discover just how great He is.  And we do this together, as the body of Jesus (the church) meeting needs in our community with the gospel of Jesus. We best learn how to do this in community with each other. Just as our kids learn about life from the community called family, we learn about mission in another community called MC. 

2. God Desires for You to Have Community 

Hebrews 10: 24-25 (ESV) - And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.

God desires YOU to be in community, but it's ultimately for a purpose that's greater than YOU. 

As we gather together, we better learn how to spur each other onto things greater than ourselves: things like love and good works. Those things exist for the goodness of others, displaying what Jesus Himself came to display. In other words, community exists so we can better show the love of Christ as the body of Christ.

3. There's a Mission that Matches Your Passion 

At Church at Cane Bay, we have a group that matches whatever you may be passionate about. From engaging with the schools in our community to being involved with single parents or foster kids, there is a place for you. For more details on our groups, head to this link - http://churchatcanebay.org/#/next-steps/missional-community

4. For Every Man, Woman, and Child

This is our Mission Statement as a church - that every man, woman, and child in a ten mile radius will have multiple opportunities to see, hear, and respond to the gospel of Jesus Christ.

Acts 1:8 (ESV) - and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.’ 

Many are called to the ends of the earth. Many are called out to other places in our nation and state. But we are all called to our Jerusalem, which for us, is Cane Bay. he early disciples took that seriously, and if we are serious followers of Jesus, we realize that it’s the most important task we have. It is why the church exists - to express the glory of God to a world in need of someone great enough to glory in. We aren’t a people called to stay, but a people called to go. We aren’t a people who are focused in, but a people who are focused out. We aren’t a people who are kept, but a people who are sent.

Last year, we saw our Missional Communities provide over 14,000 gospel touches in our community. That's an incredible start, but it's not every man, woman, and child. There is so much more work to do.

5. Church Doesn't Reach Lost People

A recent UK survey shows that 70% of the population has no intention of every going to church again. That means that nothing inside of the church will ever reach them again. Better programs, better music, and better guest services. Even in the face of great tragedy, these people say they won’t go back. The UK is a good picture of where we are going culturally, so it's important to keep an eye on them.

We can’t improve the product of ‘church’ to get them there. We have to reach people apart from ‘church’. So we can’t just fix the programs to get them to return. We have to get them there the first time and that doesn’t happen inside the doors of the church. We have to get outside of the walls and we do that best together.

6. Everybody's Doing It

Here’s what I love about Church at Cane Bay. You guys get it. You understand the importance of the mission. Every year, we see a great commitment to the mission. Over the last year, we’ve seen it grow to our largest numbers. We always aim to see 100% of those in church on Sunday plugged into Missional Communities. It’s a crazy high goal. It just doesn’t happen. As we talk to other leaders and read studies, we see that around 60% is pretty astonishing. So let me tell you what happened last year. Not only did we meet that goal, but we exceeded it. We had 107% involvement in Missional Communities, meaning that we had more people involved in Missional Communities last year than we had attend Sunday morning on average. That means our Missional Communities are reaching into the harvest and engaging lost people. That means that God is doing something incredible. And we get to be a part of it.

I hope this encourages you to become a part of what God is doing in Cane Bay through Missional Communities. It's a journey to join the Spirit of God in real Kingdom work. Do you want to be a part of it? Join us by signing up for a group at mcsignup.org.

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Raised to Life



Raised to Life

Easter carries alot more meaning for me and my family this year with the passing of my dad a little over a week ago. I had the great honor of sharing his eulogy at his funeral. In life, death and new life, dad was always a reminder of hope and new life in Jesus. I thought I would share his eulogy today as a testimony of hope found in the resurrection of Jesus.

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When I was ten years old, Dad took me on a trip, just the two of us. Apart from my honeymoon, I’ve probably never been so excited to go on a trip in my life. We planned and packed for a couple of weeks, loaded things up in the minivan with the Southern Miss sticker on the back, and pulled our little pop up camper out of Pearl, MS headed for the Smokey mountains. That trip exemplified so much of who my dad was as we spent time singing Elvis together in the van, reading books in the hammock, playing games, and talking about Jesus as we enjoyed His creation.

That was my dad. If you knew him, then I don’t have to tell you that he was the kindest man in the world. His heart overflowed with kindness. He never met a stranger. As soon as you met him, you were instantly friends. He was so genuine. Every word that came from his mouth was sincere and honest, and always grounded in love. The sheer volume of his friendships is evidence to the quality of His character. Writing this eulogy was one of the hardest things I’ve ever written, but also one of the easiest, because there is so much good to say about dad.

His smile warmed every room that he walked in. Even in his sickness, I can’t really remember a time where the joy of Jesus didn’t pour out of him. My dad constantly modeled Jesus and set a standard that I desire to be more like. Like Paul, his life said Imitate me as Imitate Christ.

It surprises you the older you grow that you take on characteristics of your parents. I’ve been blessed to inherit my dad’s smile, his love for reading Tolkein, and listening to Elvis and Johnny Cash. I also have had the joy of inheriting my dad’s hairline. But it’s his kindness that I want to have more of. I want to be more genuine and sincere. I hope and pray that one day I’m blessed to be surrounded by as many close friends as my father and mother.

Most of all, I want to love Jesus how my dad loved Jesus. So real, so genuine, so sincere. I loved having conversations with my dad about his hope in Christ and seeing tears in the corner of his eyes. Every year as we sat down to enjoy Christmas together, my dad was intent on not just reading the Christmas story, about the birth of the Son of God who changed the world forever, but to clearly explain to us that the birth of Christ took place for the death and resurrection of Christ, which gives us new hope. He loved to share and teach the gospel of Jesus to his family. I think that’s the thing I’ll remember most about him.

Not only did he speak it, but he lived it. Dad modeled the servant leadership of Jesus in his marriage to my beautiful mom, to our family as my sisters and I struggled through adolescence and coming to faith in Christ, and in all of his relationships. There was never a question that dad was the leader in our family, but he led with so much grace, consistency, and love that he was never hard to follow. We wanted to follow dad and please and honor dad, as he taught us what it meant to follow Christ, to please and honor Him.

Dad loved mom. You heard it in his words, but you could mostly see it in how he trusted her. She worked so diligently to care for him over these past few years, but that was a reflection of the care that dad showed for her as she struggled through her own cancer. I’ve never seen such a consistent example of real, sacrificial love as what I was able to see in the relationship of my parents.

Dad was a fighter. About two and a half years ago when he was diagnosed with his aggressive cancer, he made a commitment to fight it. You could see it in his eyes and hear it in his words. He wanted to experience more of the life that God had given him. I truly believe that dad did that for us. He knew the joy he would have with his savior, but he wanted more time to express Jesus to us. We were able to spend 3 more Christmases with our dad, hearing him lovingly tell us of the Father’s love for us in Christ. We got to celebrate our parents 50th Wedding Anniversary this past December, hearing stories of God’s faithfulness from the friends that God blessed our parents with. That was such a gift from God to my mom and our family.

It’s fitting that dad passed just a little over a week before Easter, because his life, and death, and new life, are a testimony to the resurrection of Jesus. This time of year is a great reminder to us that death is not the end. New life, real life is to come. Jesus in John 11 says “I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live, and everyone who lives and believes in me shall never die.” Because of the love and sacrifice of his savior, dad is alive in Christ Jesus.

Just this past Monday, as dad made the decision to attempt a surgery that could have helped him get stronger, he walked in with confidence in His savior. As he said to mom, “If I don’t make it, I’ll be in a better place.”

Martin Luther, the great reformer, once said “Our Lord has written the promise of resurrection, not in books alone, but in every leaf in springtime.” Yesterday I stood looking out the back window of my parent’s house to the redbud tree that my dad loved to watch. With spring coming, it’s just started to bloom. But that bloom is such a clear picture of the hope and new life in Christ that dad is experiencing now. Death may try to win, but creation proves to us each year that life is made new. And Thursday morning, dad was proof that death has no victory for those who are in Christ Jesus. He has been made new.

Isaiah 40:31 -
“But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.”
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Why Mission is so Hard - #2 We Don't Contextualize


WHY MISSION IS SO HARD - #2 We Don't Contextualize

Several years ago as I was working in my front yard, I looked across my neighborhood with a broken heart. It wasn’t because I knew the struggles that my neighbors were working through. It was because I didn’t know my neighbors at all. I was living in a Christian bubble. I was working a ministry job that took up large amounts of time, and I spent all of my remaining time with my family. Those were both important things, but there was no place in my life where I was building relationships with people outside of that bubble. This wasn’t the first time that this happened to me in my life. Periodically, I look down only to discover that I have no contact with the outside world.

I don’t do this intentionally, but simply because it’s the easiest and most comfortable route. It’s the direction that our lives tend to take naturally. Anyone who has grown up inside the church is going to struggle with this to some degree. Those who come to faith in Christ later in life seem to find a more natural progression in just bringing the gospel of Jesus into the context of their lives. Most are already living life out in the harvest, so this work seems more natural. For those growing up in the church, there is an additional step of creating relationships and life out in the secular world which can be fearful to many.

So, how do we as God’s people begin to not avoid, but interact with secular culture in an effort to see the gospel of Jesus penetrate darkness? Even more important, how do we speak the gospel into culture in a way that makes it understood by the culture we live in? This is called contextualization, which for our context basically means making the gospel and the church as culturally accessible as possible without compromising on matters of belief and truth. This is one of the hardest things to do well as a believer.

On a simple level, I think there are two steps to the work of contextualization that will at least help us get started on the path of living out the gospel in the context of a lost world.

1. A FOLLOWER OF JESUS MUST STUDY

Studying the Bible - To be growing and doing anything correctly, believers must always be studying Scripture to provide the proper context in which to live their lives.

Studying the Culture - Knowing the culture of an area will help determine which areas need to be addressed and which errors need to be dealt with in order for the gospel to speak into the hearts of people. It can also help influence methods in which the gospel will be shared. The believer must become a missiologist, who studies their own culture in an attempt to reach it. This is not for entertainment primarily, but for missional observation. Here are some ideas:

WATCH TV
TV gives you the best smattering of culture that you can find anywhere. Although you must be careful, it is a clear indicator of which direction culture is heading.

GO TO STARBUCKS
Go sit in Starbucks for a few hours and you will overhear some of the most interesting discussions on culture, politics, religion, and whatnot. This can help in gaining an understanding of a more local region. 

CHECK OUT THE MAGAZINE RACK
Magazine covers are basically pictures of the idols that exist in culture. It is very easy to see what is being idolized in a culture, whether you are looking at Cosmo, People, or Popular Mechanics.

LISTEN TO YOUR NEIGHBORS
Do you want to know what people are really like? Take some time and just hangout with your neighbors, hearing their struggles and joys. 

READ CITY PAPER
 I can’t imagine a better place to read and understand the culture of a place and age group than to read the local Arts paper for a downtown area.

2. A FOLLOWER OF JESUS MUST CONTEXTUALIZE

1 Corinthians 9: 19 - 23 - For though I am free from all, I have made myself a servant to all, that I might win more of them. To the Jews I became as a Jew, in order to win Jews. To those under the law I became as one under the law (though not being myself under the law) that I might win those under the law. To those outside the law I became as one outside the law (not being outside the law of God but under the law of Christ) that I might win those outside the law. To the weak I became weak, that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some. I do it all for the sake of the gospel, that I may share with them in its blessings.

Jesus is of course the best model of this. Paul models it here in his letter to the church in Corinth, but we are to model it as well. The work of contextualization isn’t about making the gospel relevant (because it always is), but it is about showing the relevance of the gospel to a specific culture. We must do this in our speech and in our methods. This does not mean that we water down truth, the gospel, or doctrine. It must remain a part of everything that we do, but it must be communicated in a way that is understandable and applicable. Missionaries do this overseas all the time, but it must be done in our culture as well as well if we want people to understand how the gospel of Jesus is good news to their lives.

Typically, we struggle with one of these over another. As a whole, we tend to extremes in one direction or another, often failing to understand that speaking the good news of Jesus into our culture is a both/and.

Problems to watch for -

STUDYING, BUT NOT CONTEXTUALIZING
It does the Kingdom little good if we entangle ourselves well with culture, but make no effort to use that culture to speak the gospel. You can know every hit album, every sports statistic, and hangout with lost people all the time. If you aren’t using those things to express the gospel of Jesus, then you are no different from a firefighter who goes into a burning building with people inside and chooses to just stay there. You are sent to rescue with the hope of the gospel, not to be culturally relevant.

TRYING TO CONTEXTUALIZE WITHOUT STUDYING
If we try to speak the gospel into culture, but we don’t know anything about culture, it always comes off bad. We’ve been guilty of this numerous times, using bad art, music, or movies to proclaim the gospel message. In this scenario, we can often make the gospel seem un-relevant, which can do more damage than good. The gospel is always relevant, we just have to show people that truth.

Mission is hard for us because we struggle to contextualize. We struggle to show people that the gospel of Jesus is good news for their lives, their struggles, and their families. Jesus is our hope, and the hope of all who are in darkness. Let’s believe that, live that, and speak it into the lives of our friends, family, neighbors, and co-workers.
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Why Mission is So Hard - #1 We See Christianity as Internal

Occasionally, my facebook feed gets taken over by discussion of nature vs. nurture, and how they influence life and society in mostly political ways. If we are honest with ourselves, we are impacted by both our genes and the influences around us in many ways: personality, our looks, bits of who we will become, our sinful nature, the love of good music and candy (at least for me), and our desire for comfort that compels many of us to live a life that is safe.

Despite the fact that we dedicate our energy and paycheck to building up that safe life for ourselves and our families, God has not called us to live a safe life. We aren’t called to be SAFE, but rather, to be SENT.

John 20:21 - Jesus said to them again, "Peace be with you. As the Father has sent me, even so I am sending you."


Jesus’ words for His disciples are clear, but we’ve made them complicated. Christ’s life of being sent was far from safe, and it stands to reason that if we are following Him, our lives might not be safe either. We have, however, dedicated our lives to being safe over being sent. This series of blog posts will look at the idea of Why Mission is Hard for us as followers of Jesus, and examine some practical steps we can take to move our lives away from the focus on ourselves and more onto the mission of God.

WHY MISSION IS SO HARD - #1 We See Christianity as Internal

In the last year, I’ve started wood-working as a new hobby to help clear my mind, provide time with the Lord, and bring some joy and satisfaction to my life. In particular, I’ve started the process of building furniture for my family and others. Before I started actually building things, I spent a lot of time working through plans and processes for building. I wanted to find out exactly what I needed to do the work, and how I should go about doing the work.

When I started my first project, I was pretty sure I had everything figured out. In fact, I was beyond confident. All of that confidence went out the window the first time I split a piece of wood and ended up with a large crack in the top of a table I was building. But it was the experience of doing the work that helped me avoid that happening again. If I never took the initiative to get the process out of my head and actually start working, I would have never made real progress. Building up knowledge in my head was helpful, but real learning didn’t happen until I put it into practice.

I think the idea of our faith as believers is very similar. Many of us have years of information in our heads from church, conferences, small groups, and blog posts, but when it comes down to it, we haven’t ever put it into practice. Because of that, we are missing out on some of the greatest blessings that God can give us in joining Him in the harvest fields of our faith. Even from a young age, we internalize the gospel to our children by encouraging them to ask Jesus into their heart, rather than speaking of belief, repentance, and a life of obedience. We spend so much time believing the Kingdom of God is happening in us (and it is!), but missing out on the fact that God’s Kingdom is happening all around us.

For the past few decades of the church, we’ve focused on the internal aspect of the Christian experience. Hear me when I say that’s not a bad thing, but it becomes problematic if it’s divorced from the fact that there is a large external and relational component to Christianity. This is evident in our relationships with other believers, as we see in the desired qualities of the church in Ephesians 4: 1 - 3 (humility, gentleness, patience, bearing with one another in love, and maintaining unity). We also see it clearly in the Great Commission in Matthew 28: 19 - 20 as it pertains to our relationship with nonbelievers as we make disciples by going, baptizing, and teaching.

In his Institutes of the Christian Religion, John Calvin reminds us that “Doctrine is not an affair of the tongue but of the life.”


It’s a vital reminder that learning the character of God should lead us to worship and making disciples, not hoarding. Because of our nature, however, we find it much easier to focus on ourselves than others. I believe it’s very telling that most of the sin in our life is also focused on ourselves. The more we focus on us, the easier it is to fall into temptation because it’s always geared towards our pleasure and not the Lord’s. On the flip side, most of the attributes we see of a follower of Jesus in the New Testament are focused on others and a life that more easily displays the gospel to them.

So how do we begin to take what God has changed on the inside and use it on the outside for His glory? Here are a couple of ideas -

1. Love Your Neighbor As Yourself (Matthew 22:39)
This is the 2nd greatest commandment that Jesus gives us, and He even likens it to the first (loving God). It’s hard for us to love our neighbor as ourself because we honestly REALLY love ourself. We may act like that’s not the case by saying we hate our life or falling into depression, but often in those situations, we prove our love for ourselves by thinking that life isn’t giving US what WE deserve out of life. We consistently put ourselves on a high pedestal. Jesus tells us to bring our neighbor (not necessarily just the person across the street) up to the same position. What are practical ways to do this? Give up your date night by watching your neighbor’s kids and letting them have one. Cut your neighbor’s yard. Give them the gift card to Starbucks you’ve been saving for yourself. It’s good practice to move away from focusing on us, to start living a life of mission.

2. Be a Doer of the Word, Not Just a Hearer (James 1:22) 
Start taking the opportunity as you study God’s word to put it into practice. As you work through a passage of Scripture, don’t just ask what is being said, but ask how you can apply that to your life. Our church uses the SOAP model of journaling through Scripture, and it’s a really simple way to learn how to put the word of God into practice in your life. What is God asking you to do based upon what He’s saying in His word?

Growing closer to the Lord through studying His word, spending time in prayer, and experiencing His Spirit in worship with other believers is necessary because it energizes and strengthens the believer. We just have to remember what we are being strengthened for - the glory of God and the mission of His gospel. The Christian life isn’t just internal, and it’s not only external. It’s BOTH. God’s Kingdom is alive and working in our hearts, but if we want to know it fully then we have to join it in the streets. That is where God is using His people to accomplish His saving purposes.
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What is a Missional Community?

Since I talk about Missional Communities often on social media, one of the questions that I get is 'What is a Missional Community?' It's a great question, because many people don't have a context to see MCs in action, and they often wonder exactly what it looks like. Before The Church at Cane Bay, I really had no idea myself. Honestly, even when we started our groups, we had never seen one in action. It was all theory then, but it's a theory that's turned into something quite beautiful that the Lord has used to engage thousands of people in our community with the hope of the gospel of Jesus.

So, what is a Missional Community? Simply defined, it's a group focused on mission and community. We stick with this terminology because it's actually pretty self-explanatory. 

If you want to get a little more in-depth, here is what a Missional Community is for us  - 
A community of people organized to give every man, woman, and child within its circle of influence multiple opportunities to see, hear, and respond to the gospel of Jesus.

This idea of circle of influence is probably the biggest part of each group, because it's the thing that drives the mission of the community. Each group has a defined circle of influence that they have either formulated together, or signed onto because they have a shared passion for that. It is made up of the people that they serve, pray for, and work to share Jesus with on a weekly basis. We have groups that serve each school in our community, a foster boy's ranch, military/first responder families, and DSS/foster families in our county.

Each Missional Community gathers weekly in homes or in the harvest, praying for and serving the mission decided by the group. They share dinner together to build community, and study scripture to strengthen and embolden the mission.

Each MC meeting lasts 2 hours:
Share Dinner -  1 Hour
Praying for, Planning, and Serving the Mission - 40 Minutes
Study Scripture - 20 Minutes

If you would like more information about Missional Communities, I've put together a more in-depth ebook on how we do Missional Communities. You can check that out HERE. If you would like to sign up to get involved in one of our Missional Communities, please go HERE.
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Why I'm Glad Missional Communities Are Back

I need to take a moment to be really honest with you. I’m excited. I’m very excited. You might be wondering why that’s the case. Let me explain:

You’ve probably seen that I talk about this thing called Missional Communities alot. At The Church at Cane Bay, we have small groups like many churches do, but ours are a little different than most. We call them Missional Communities, and for us, they allow The Church at Cane Bay to really BE the church. Let me explain what I mean by that statement. Here’s what these groups are all about -

Mission - Each week, our groups gather together to pray for and serve a specific mission that they’ve identified in our community. It ranges from working with the local public schools, serving with a local foster boy’s ranch, all the way to welcoming new families that move into our community. Whatever the case may be, each group takes ownership of a specific mission, and our church is able to have a much greater reach into the community because of it. They allow the gospel to be lived out and heard in many different places.

Community - Each group is also about community. The task is a great one, and we could never do it alone. We are much stronger with community around us. Every group shares a meal together every week. We have learned that there are two ways for us to really get to know each other - serving with one another and eating around a table together. So this is where our groups exist. We need the love, support, and encouragement that each one has to offer, because we all struggle with sin and can remind each other about the grace of God.

Let me give you a few reasons why I’m so excited that our Missional Communities are back in session -

1. I said this one earlier, but they allow our church to really BE THE CHURCH. This might seem odd considering our cultural understanding of Sunday morning services being church, but as we look to Scripture, our picture of church is altogether different. In Acts 2, we see a community of believers that are sacrificing to care for each other, meeting together over meals, and loving their community. That is what our Missional Communities are about. Every time we aren’t in session, it really feels like something is missing. These groups allow our church to BE the church.

2. Missional Communities bring EXCITEMENT to our church. People get excited about being a part of something big. They enjoy participating where differences are being made for the Kingdom. There is a new energy in the room when our groups are active. Even this past Sunday, you could feel the difference when Missional Communities are mentioned and there were shouts of excitement.

3. Missional Communities give people a place to PLUG IN to our church. Sometimes it’s hard to get involved in a new community of believers. But our Missional Communities make this an easy step. They immediately provide closer relationships and the sense of family that’s harder to have on a Sunday morning level. They help people get connected in a real way to what God is doing in our community.

So what about you? Are you plugged in? Things are moving and in motion, and you don’t want to miss the opportunity to be a part of something that’s far bigger than yourself. It’s about a mission, a community, and a Kingdom.

Sign up for a group here - https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/viewform?formkey=dFN3RDJoa2w0YlJxckQtZDdyclNnaHc6MQ#gid=0
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A Look at Stetzer's 'Subversive Kingdom'

It’s not often (or ever really) that you will see a book reviewed on this blog, but I recently came across the latest book from Ed Stetzer called Subversive Kingdom. I wanted to take a few minutes and fill you in on Stetzer’s main idea, and what he thinks we as Christ followers should be doing about it. 

Stetzer lays out his main idea in Chapter One in speaking of the Kingdom of God as a ‘Subversive Kingdom’. He says this: “As Christians, we don’t join an illegitimate rebellion. Instead, we live for King Jesus in contrast to those around us. We live in loyalty to the very One the world rebels against. We’re in rebellion against the rebellion.”

This could be a scary view for many, thinking that Christians are out to ‘take over’ and turn our world into a Theocracy, but they would be missing the whole point of what Stetzer means by ‘subversive’. His argument is that, in small ways, the Christ followers of the world would rebel against this rebellion with love. Simple acts of love and kindness that radiate the grace of God and the glory of the gospel to a broken and helpless world.

Stetzer gets this more than most, and he’s willing to get beyond the idea of the Kingdom of God (though it’s well explained), to lay out what it really means to be a part of the Kingdom of God. It doesn’t involve us hiding in our churches to avoid the influence of the world, or openly attacking the world for it’s rebellion against God. Rather, we share the good news of Jesus by living a life of love out in the world that God purposefully placed us in. It seems like such a simple premise, but it’s one that Christians rarely do well.

His last section is a practical plan of action for those willing to live this life of subversion. Using the teachings of Christ and the apostles, he lays out what our individual role is in this mission of subversion. We play an important part if we are going to see the gospel really take hold in our communities and our world. We must be willing to come out of hiding and get out in our neighborhoods. We must care for those we work with, avoiding the wars that pop up so often. We must be persons of peace for the sake of the gospel. We must be subversive.
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The Matthew Challenge - Matthew Chapter Six

At The Church at Cane Bay, we are participating in the Matthew Challenge, which is one chapter daily walk in journaling through the book of Matthew using the SOAP method. I'm excited to get to post my thoughts on Matthew, Chapter Six, and would love for you to join us in this journey.

Matthew 6 -

S - Verse 21 - “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

O - Jesus builds up a context of treasures on earth versus treasures in heaven. He speaks about how treasures on the earth are only temporary, that they will decay or either be taken from you. Instead, Jesus emphasizes that we should be storing up treasures in heaven. The things that are of heaven are eternal. They will not decay and they will not be stolen from us. He then tells us that where that treasure is, that is where our heart is as well. Whatever we consider to be the most valuable in our lives will be the thing we work for and give great effort to.

A - The application for us is a pretty tough one, because the truth is that our heart is often in so many places. What do we do with our free time? How do we spend our money? These are both good indicators of where our treasure is. If we spend most of our free time or all the money that’s left over in the bank at the end of the month on stuff that just brings us personal pleasure, that speaks strongly about how our treasures may be found in earthly things. This is one that I constantly have to question myself on. Where are my real affections? If my treasure is in earthly things, then that’s where my love and affections lie. But if I begin to switch that over to building others up, having relationships that matter for the Kingdom, and giving my time to serve the community, then my heart will fall there as well.

P - Lord, help me to have my heart placed on things that are eternal, and not on things of this world.
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Some Final Thoughts on 'Overcoming Depression'

This morning we dealt with the issue of depression and anxiety at The Church at Cane Bay. This is one of the most difficult sermons that I've ever had to preach. I asked for alot of prayer on this one. The reason is because I know it's an issue that harms so many of us and can cause us to lose our zeal for mission and joy for God's call to us.

I want to mention again the action points for us to take if we feel like we have lost control or lost hope in the middle of a difficult time -

If You are Struggling with Anxiety -
1. Change your focus - Start to think about others more. Serve others. Join a Missional Community and be active in loving others. You will find joy.
2. Find out where your faith is - the gospel or your feelings - Whichever one you place faith in will be the reality that you ‘feel’ from day to day.
3. Trust Jesus with your life - Anxiety is evidence of where our care lies. Place these things in his hands. Pray to him and literally give them to Him daily.

If You are Struggling with Depression - 1. Seek help - let someone know what you are struggling with. You don’t need to walk this alone. You need some outside perspective. Find me or a close friend that is walking with Jesus. If it’s an ongoing thing, then seek counseling.
2. Know God created you as you for a reason - Don’t desire to be someone else or in some other situation. God has you here for a reason. He designed you to be you. Trust Him.
3. Think hard about your beliefs - If you really believe the gospel, should you be depressed? What does your depression say about your belief? Everyone carries doubts from time to time, but if this is major and ongoing, you may need to consider how much you really trust God.
4. Get to the bottom of things - Again, I am not a doctor or psychiatrist, but you will never escape these feelings without dealing with the issue at hand. Antidepressants are not a cure for that. They only take care of symptoms. They will not fix you in the long run. You need to deal with the issue at hand.

Here are some resources that might be helpful for you -

Scripture -
Matthew 6: 25 - 33
Job
Philippians 4

Books -
Get Out of That Pit - Beth Moore
When the Darkness Will Not Lift - John Piper


If you need to see someone for counseling through these issues, here are two great local resources-
Lowcountry Biblical Counseling Center
Covenant Counseling Center


Of course, I hope you know that we are always here for you. Please feel free to email us if you are struggling through these issues -
Joel Ainsworth - ainsworth.joel@gmail.com
Charlie Swain - charlie.w.swain@gmail.com
Jennifer Kinney - jlkinney147@gmail.com

Prayers for all of us as we continue to allow Christ to overcome our struggles!
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Marriage - What's the Point?

    The subject of marriage is a hot topic these days in the Christian community. The truth is that, again and again, statistics prove that Christians are essentially just as likely to divorce as non-Christians. The most recent study by Barna shows that while 33% of non-Christians that marry divorce at least once, the numbers for Christians are barely better at 32%. So, what is the real issue? Communication? Money? Intimacy? Why are Christians not able to stay together at a rate better than non-believers? I believe it is because Christians are living according to the same rules as non-Christians when it comes to the purpose of marriage. We often, like the world, believe that the point of marriage is to make us happy. That is not the point at all.
    The truth is, most of us got married in the first place because it made us happy. Not many took the time to sit down and really think about what the whole point of this relationship really is. Believe me, happiness in marriage is not a bad thing. In fact, I believe that it is a beautiful result of a Christ-centered relationship that should be sought. That blessing, however, is not the point of marriage. It's not the reason that we marry.
    I've had the joy of walking through pre-marital counseling with two couples these past few months, and it's given me the opportunity to really think through some things that I didn't really dig into the first time. There are many purposes of marriage that you find in the plethora of books out there on marriage, as well as in the pages of Scripture. Having kids, sanctification, companionship, and covenant are all good biblical purposes that we see of marriage in Scripture. There is one, however, that I believe stands out above the rest. It is also the one that is most often forgotten.
    In Ephesians 5, Paul quotes a popular verse from Genesis 2:24 that deals specifically with marriage: "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." (ESV) This is the earliest picture that we see of marriage in Scripture. Paul says something about this verse in Ephesians 5:32 that really lays out the purpose of marriage: "This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church." Paul uses the term mystery here to refer to the fact that the real purpose of marriage has been veiled through the Old Testament period, but is now being revealed. It is profound, and it points to Christ and the church. To put it simply, the purpose of marriage is to be a picture of Christ's relationship with the church. Even more simply, marriage is a picture of the gospel.
    So why is understanding the purpose of marriage such an important thing? It changes the entire basis of the relationship. Ephesians 5:25 gives husbands the charge to "love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." Christ was not seeking happiness, nor did he gain esteem or a home cooked meal every night. He constantly sacrificed Himself for a people that constantly turned their backs on Him. Husbands, we are to love in the same manner. Even when it costs us, even when it hurts, even when we aren't happy, we are to still love and sacrifice.
    Notice the effect this should have on Christian marriages. If our marriages are a picture of the gospel, there should be no divorce. Truthfully, when our marriages do split up it displays a broken picture of the gospel to the world. Why should people believe that God would love them unconditionally when our marriages consistently display conditional 'love'? John Piper puts it this way in his book A Momentary Marriage: "Therefore, what makes divorce and remarriage so horrific in God's eyes is not merely that it involves covenant-breaking to the spouse, but that it involves misrepresenting Christ and His covenant."
    Your marriage is part of your mission. In fact, it is the most important picture of the gospel in your life. As we display love, as Christ loved, to the best of our ability, people have the opportunity to see that a greater love exists. We have all made mistakes in the past that have cost us relationships, marriages, friendships, and even family. Please know that Christ pursues us even as we have turned our back on him. The question is for us now, do we understand that our marriage has a greater purpose than just a relationship between a husband and wife? It should display the gospel, make disciples, glorify God, encourage sanctification, and drive people to Jesus. It is the purpose of our life on earth to glorify God by sharing a message of hope in the midst of hopelessness, and it is the purpose of our marriage as well. It is bigger than you. It's about Him. Glorify God with your marriage.
   
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